there are options for reviving the good ol’ AOL Instant Messenger. One is by using phoenixim.ddns.net server, Two is by using nina.chat (experimental), Three is making a local server.
pretty good project, supports up to aim 7.x and icq 6.x, written in golang and easily self-hostable
i didnt understand about the host, how tf i connect?
RTFM
You run your own instance of the server and the instructions are in the documentation in the repo.
but why woud i have a own instance of server if no one gonna know about 
To share with your friends. To mess with AIM’s protocol, what have you
my friends are new gen dont use theese things..